Sexual Teasing – The Art of Teasing Her During Sex and Foreplay

If you’ve ever been learning or reading about flirting and seducing, then you may be familiar with the term teasing. To use teasing is a great way to spark attraction and make a woman sexually interested in you.

However, once you are in the bedroom with a woman you can also use teasing. It’s then called sexual teasing. Just as teasing sparks a great emotional response in women outside of the bedroom, sexual teasing also works magic once you’re in the bedroom. In this post you’ll learn exactly how to use it.

Create Powerful Emotions with Sexual Teasing

As I have written about in my posts the power of passion and what makes a man a great lover, great sex has to be emotional. To be a great lover, you have to be able to create powerful emotions.

Sexual teasing is a very good way to create these types of powerful emotions. Even if the emotions that your woman gets from sexual teasing almost can be regarded as negative, it’s still an increase of emotions. Thus the sex becomes more emotional. And the more emotional the sex is, the better the sex is.

What is Sexual Teasing?

Sexual teasing or sex teasing is about leading your woman just to the limit of receiving something that she wants and then not letting her cross the boundary. By not immediately giving her what she wants, you build up the sexual excitement even more. Once she does get what she wants, the gratification will be bigger.

You should push this as far as you can, without creating too many negative emotions. Normally sexual teasing works best during foreplay, but it can actually even be used when your woman is about to orgasm.

Teasing The Right Way

Before you start to sexually tease your woman, it is important to keep two things in mind. If you tease your partner during the foreplay and she is not horny enough, she may just think that you’re acting weird. And in case you tease her too much, she may just think you’re a douche. So make sure not to tease her too much and to also focus on making her horny.

If she becomes less excited by your teasing, you’re doing it wrong. Then focus on making her more excited. If she shows signs of irritation, you’re of course also doing it wrong.

It’s important that she deep down understands that you’re just teasing and joking with her. Since variation is important and too much of anything becomes bad, you should also never do it too much.

The Abrupt Foreplay Tease

One tease technique that you can experiment with is the abrupt foreplay tease. Start a foreplay with your woman where you kiss and caress her until she gets really excited and horny. But then abruptly and without explanation, leave her and go to another room. You can even use your mouth or fingers and take her to the level where she’s just ready to get fucked and then leave.

When she then comes to see where you went, you can drag her close to you. Then lift her up carry her back into the bedroom throw her on the bed and start to fuck her. Alternatively, while she’s still sitting in the room, confused and on the verge of being angry, you take off all your clothes. Then rush back in, throw her on the bed, and start to fuck her.

This technique has to be used extremely rarely to work well.

The Long Sex Tease

Another way to sexually tease your woman is to make her really horny while you’re home. But instead of fucking her or just before she comes, you take her out somewhere. For example, a restaurant or a bar. You then continue to tease, finger fuck, and talk dirty with her the whole evening.

When you finally fuck her after such a long and teasing foreplay, she will be more ready to come than she has ever been before.

To be great in bed it is important not to be prude by just teasing and making your woman horny in the bedroom. Dare to finger and have sex with her in a variety of “taboo” type of places.

The One Step Forward Two Steps Back Tease

This technique is a great way of sexually teasing your woman in a slow and deliberate way as you escalate through foreplay. The idea is that if your partner reacts powerfully to something you do, you can sometimes stop and go back two steps or do something else. This way you step away from a linear escalation and build up excitement and expectation. While you’re stimulating the breasts, you have a perfect opportunity for this.

Lift the bra so the nipple is visible and start to kiss around and breathe on it or suck it. Then put the bra back and return to kissing her elsewhere. Whereupon, you again begin to teasingly work your way around her breast until she can’t resist anymore and pushes her chest against you.

Because of the intense “wanting to have feelings” that you’ve built up, the reward will feel wonderful to your woman.

Using The Technique Later Makes It Even More Powerful

The technique can also be carried out at a later time during the foreplay. You then pull her panties aside and start eating her out, just to put them back in place again.

If you really want to tease and create powerful feelings within your woman, you can also use this just when you’re about to begin penetration. You then let half the cock slide in or start fucking her with just the tip. Whereupon you take it straight out and say

I really don’t think you’re ready just yet”

Then you take a step back and continue with something else. Doing this, you haven’t just teased her by giving her a glimpse of the reward. You also let her touch it, just to take it away from her.

Straight after this, you give your partner a very deep reward, something that definitely will have her appreciating the previous game.

Sexual Teasing by Talking

It is not uncommon that your partner sometimes tries to take the command during foreplay. She may, both verbally and physically, let you know that she wants you inside as soon as possible. Sometimes you can give in to this, but usually, show her that you’re in control.

Build up even more desire by letting her suffer from her lust. Don’t be afraid to stop and tease her when you notice that she is trying to bring the sex act forward. Say playful things like “not yet”, “I don’t think you want it bad enough yet” and “what’s the magic word”. Tell her that she has been a naughty girl trying to take what she wanted, and that’s the reason why she now has to wait even longer.

Even if it’s actually you who’s initiating and bringing the actions forward, you can still sometimes stop. Push her away from you a bit and playfully say,

Hey, you’re being to forward now, take it a bit slower.”

Slow Teasing Foreplay

When you’re using sexual teasing, you can also make the whole foreplay one extremely intense sexual tease by using the slow foreplay tease.

To tease your woman in this way, you start with traditional foreplay, but without touching her pussy and breast. Rub her on top of the clothes and rub her straight on the opening of the vagina and around it. But don’t be too linear. Rub and massage her entire body. Then take off her sweater and pants.

Make her Suffer from Desire

When your woman eventually starts showing that she wants you, you tell her that you want to take it slow and enjoy exploring her. Use your fingertips to slowly caress her skin with a feather-light touch. Make her suffer for what she wants. Spend time before you reach the area of the nipples.

When you eventually approach the breasts, you wait a deliberately long time before touching her nipples. Tease her around them instead. You decide when to give her pleasure, so hold back and build up the desire.

When the time finally has come, you touch her nipples gently with your fingertips. But just brush them and then continue teasing her with soft fingers. Once you’ve built up desire and teased her long enough, you start sucking her nipples. Kiss her in different ways and use all of the techniques that you know make her really horny.

Move on to Sexually Teasing Her Pussy

If you haven’t already removed her underwear, you can now massage the inside of her thighs and around her underwear. Finally, take them off. Then slowly massage her belly and back. But continue to avoid the pussy, regardless of how much she begs you.

Eventually, move the hand towards the lower regions and touch her pubic hair above the vagina, or where the pubic hair would’ve existed if she’s shaved. Continue to avoid the vagina itself.

Move towards the lower regions with the massage. Massage her ass and inner thighs, but still refrain from contact with the vagina. Your partner should be very excited by this time. In case she’s not very shy, she may try to massage her own pussy. Don’t let her. If you notice her hands moving toward the pussy, you instead move them towards the breasts. Tell her you want to take more time to enjoy her.

Build Even More Desire

Place one of your hands over her pussy and just let it hover above it. Something that really can make her crazy with excitement. If you build up a lot of desire before this, it’s not uncommon for the woman to lift her hip and try to push the vagina toward your hand. Be prepared for this and raise your hand so it doesn’t nudge her pussy.

Don’t let your hand hover there for more than a couple of minutes. But long enough for her to notice it and feel its warmth. While you let your hand hover, you can also kiss your woman’s neck. Or stimulate her in any of the other ways she appreciates.

Time to Tease her Pussy

When you eventually lower your hands, you slowly stroke with your fingers along each side of the vagina. Then start massaging her clit. After the massage, you start paying attention to her Labias. Slowly massage them and create a feeling of a void that needs to be filled by opening them.

If you want, you can keep on teasing your woman for a while to build up even more desire. It is then possible that she both physically and verbally will try to get you to enter her with your fingers or the cock. But continue to show who’s in control until you even can’t handle any more yourself. Your woman will certainly be more than ready.

You then either begin with internal finger techniques, and you may have as an aim to lead her to female ejaculation (see The Master Key). Alternatively, you continue teasing her with your cock.

Time to Slide Inside

If you choose to feel the glory with your cock, you begin to rub it around her pussy and clit. Then carefully you move on to rubbing the clit. You let her know that you actively choose not to fuck her.

Tease her like this until she asks you to enter her. But when she asks you to put it inside, you say no and continue to tease her. Even though she asks you a second time, you say no. Continue to tease her pussy and show that you are in control, something that will turn your woman on even more.

When you eventually decide to enter her, you only give her a few centimeters. Then you slowly pull it out and slowly in again, just a few centimeters. You continue to show that you’re still in control.

Then you do the same, but a little further in with the cock. Slowly in and out and in and out. Then a little further again, very slowly. Take plenty of time for this and gradually work your way up to almost your entire cock. But never all the way in. Slowly in and out. You will both be very excited by this pleasurable torture and sometimes it may even lead to orgasm.

Give her The Complete Experience

At times, though very rarely, you can also try to stop completely when you both are at the peak of your excitement. This will create a powerful sexual tension between you. Then take up the foreplay and teasing again the next day or later the same day.

When you only give her a few centimeters of cock, it can be a good idea to hold a grip around it with your fingers. This way you make sure that it doesn’t go too far. Since the outside of the pussy then also gets stimulated by your fingers, this will offer a kind of double effect. Along with this, you can also focus on teasing both the clitoris and the G-spot with the tip of your cock.

Sometimes you can also talk dirty and tell her that you don’t think she can handle more, while you slowly give her a tiny piece of your cock.

When she finally is crazy with desire, and probably you too. You at last give her the complete cock.

Make Her Orgasm Like She’s Never Done Before

There you go. Now you know how to tease your woman like a pro. If you want to continue building your skills in bed, and learn how to make her cum like she’s never come before, I recommend you to check out my ultimate guide to become an amazing lover.