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Man in a sexless marriage: dynamics and solutions

We have received another question from our audience and our team will try to give some tips around the topic. The question is the following: My wife doesn’t want sex and we have been off intimacy for more than 4 years now. Every approach I do is answered with reject and even though she says … Read more

How to help a guy with performance anxiety

How to help a guy with performance anxiety

Hey there team,I am dating a guy who has anxiety and a lot of performance stress. Been trying to calm things down to be able to enjoy sex, but is still a problem sometimes. When it works is great, but sometimes he is just too stressed about it. Could you write a post about how … Read more

How to measure yourself for a chastity device?

Team, I would like to know how to measure for a chastity device, how to choose a chastity cage and what to consider when choosing one size or another. I’ve been looking into incorporating a chastity cage into my game, but I don’t want to buy something I’m not sure will fit me. Anonymous Hello … Read more

Worried man sitting on the bed becasue the wife doesn't like chastity

My wife doesn’t want to play with chastity devices

Hey there! Read through the article on chastity devices. Love the content! I’ve been into chastity for a few years. Married guy but wife is not interested in play. So I’ve been self locking. Any thoughts, ideas, etc on how to stay self locked and not give into urges? I know lock boxes exists. I’ve … Read more

What is rimming and how do you get started with it?

What is rimming? How to do it and how to ask for it?

In this weeks’ post our sexologist Federico Bordón answers a question we received a few days ago about what is rimming and how to communicate if you like it. The question is the following: “I am straight guy but I really like to be rimmed and also eating girls ass. I would like you to … Read more

a girlfriend who wants to have anal sex

Ask Federico – Girlfriend Wants Anal Sex

Hi Team! I have a bit of an unusual question. My girlfriend has said that she is interested in trying anal sex. I have the feeling she has previous knowledge. I myself have never tried it and I do feel a bit insecure and hesitant about this particular act. What is the thing I need … Read more

black ball gag

Ball Gags – Recommendations and How to Use Them – Ask Olivia

Editorial Note: If you use the links on this page to buy something, we may earn a small affiliate commission (at no extra cost to you). Thanks. Hi Olivia! I really appreciate your previous posts. This is not a problem per se, I just need some guidelines. My girlfriend likes BDSM. In particular, she likes … Read more

Olivia thinks all men should learn about sex

Why Men Should Learn How to Have Sex – Ask FEDERICO

Since I didn’t get any questions this week (please send in your questions here) I wanted to take this opportunity to talk about why men should learn how to have sex. Sex is important for all people. But for the masculinities that are generated in our culture, sex often occupies a central place. When men … Read more

man wondering if his penis is too small

Is my Penis too Small? – Ask us

Hello team! I have a big problem (no pun intended). I’m wondering if my penis is too small? I’m not going to give you the size, I’m too ashamed to even write it down. Let’s just say every woman I have ever been with has been disappointed when she has seen it. This reaction has … Read more