During my journey to become awesome in bed, I researched and experimented with everything that could enhance a woman’s pleasure. And a long time ago, when I sucked at sex and before I began to give women multiple orgasms, thrusting techniques were one of the first things I experimented with.
However, I soon discovered that it’s actually not all in the hip, and that great thrusting techniques alone will not exactly make you an amazing lover.
With that said, when you are having sex, different types of thrusting techniques can often be fun and exciting to experiment with. They will definitely spice up the sex. And if you use the right one with the right woman, it can lead to some very intense orgasms. On top of this, a thrusting repertoire will also make you stand out from all the repetitive in-and-out guys.
In this post, I share my favorite thrusting techniques. Let’s dive in.
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Taoist Thrusting
Taoist thrusting is an ancient and appreciated method that you perform as follows. Slowly slide all the way in and then almost completely out again. After this, you make 9 shallow thrusts and then 1 deep. Continue with 8 shallow and 2 deep, 7 shallow, and 3 deep, till you come to 1 shallow and 9 deep. You can then turn around and go back all the way, 2 shallow 8 deep, etc. Be sure never to pull out completely during these thrusts.
Taoist Thrusting with a Twist
If you want to experiment a bit with the Taoist thrusting, you can use the Taoist thrusting with a twist. Instead of shallow and deep, you then shift between slow sensual thrusts and hard fast thrusts. 9 slow sensual 1 hard fast, 8 slow sensual 2 hard fast, etc. This is my personal twist to Taoist Thrusting and a thrusting technique that has been getting me great results.
Since Taoist thrusting often is appreciated, it’s a fun thrusting technique to experiment with. However, to always have to keep track of numbers while you’re fucking, is not great. So make sure you don’t use these thrusting techniques too often.
Deep and Shallow and the Hip Roll
Simply switching between shallow thrusts and deep thrusts without counting is another thrusting technique you can try. This can be hot for your partner and allows you to be more in the present than the Taoist Thrusting. On top of this, shallow thrusting can also help you to last longer.
A good approach is to start the sex with shallow thrusting, and stroke deep sometimes. Your woman will love the contrast between the two. Then you increase the use of deep thrusting as your woman becomes more aroused.
You can also start out the sex with only extremely slow and shallow thrusting. Then you very slowly build up to deeper and faster thrusting.
Another type of thrusting technique that you can use is to roll your hip in different directions while you’re fucking. If you are a stiff European/Caucasian man and unless you are used to Latin dance, a smooth hip roll may be a bit difficult to pull off. But by practicing, you will improve your skills.
Coital Alignment Technique
When you are having missionary sex with your woman, you can try the Coital Alignment Technique. Instead of normal thrusting, you slide higher up on your woman. And with the dick only partially inside, you use more of an isolated pelvic movement while thrusting.
When you use this thrusting technique, your hip and pelvic bone should rub against your woman’s clitoris. Thus if your woman comes easier by clitoral stimulation added to the sex, which most women do, then this thrusting technique is great to use.
General Experimentation
Since women have different preferences, you should definitely experiment to find out what your woman likes. As you experiment, you will come up with great new techniques as well as refine old ones.
You can experiment by thrusting with different speeds, depths, and directions of the cock. And even just try to focus on thrusting in one direction of the vagina during an extended period of time.
Pay attention to how your woman reacts to your experimentation, learn from it, and hone your thrusting skills. However, be aware that if you experiment too much during the same sex, it’s not unlikely that your woman will think it’s too jerky. In a negative way.
A woman wants to be able to relax and enjoy the sex. If the man is changing tempo and rhythm every second as if he’s a sexually frustrated teenager, it will not be great for her.
Switch Between Sensual and Hard
Switching between sensual sex and hard however is good. Sometimes you experience the enjoyment of every little feeling while you make tender and sensual love. Other times you smash it hard and give it all, like a man fresh off a deserted island, who hasn’t seen a glimpse of a woman for years.
You don’t need to be afraid of fucking too hard. A woman who is about to come can be fucked very hard. In fact, during an orgasm women’s sensitivity to pain decreases by more than half compared to when they are resting. While the sense of touch even can be enhanced.
Add Other Types of Stimulation
As I wrote above, fucking is definitely not all about the hip. As you are fucking you should also combine it with other types of stimulation. To get some inspiration, you can check out my post on foreplay techniques. Most of the techniques in that post can actually also be used while you’re having sex.
Fuck her Like She Never has Been Fucked Before
Thrusting techniques are great, and you should experiment with all of the above. But they will not make you an amazing lover. If you want to continue learning how you give her the best sex she’s had in her entire life, by far, then I recommend The Master Key – My Ultimate Guide to Become an Amazing Lover.
