Looking for the best books on how to please a woman sexually? Then you’ve come to the right place. When I wrote The Master Key – The Ultimate Guide to Become an Amazing Lover, I studied all the books I could find on how to please a woman sexually, so I know what I’m talking about.
In this blog post, I’ve compiled a list of Amazon’s top-rated books on pleasing women sexually. Just keep on reading to get my recommendations and personal comments on each book.
Table of Contents
- 1 Why I decided to write The Master Key
- 2 Here is a Quick Comparison Table of the Best Books
- 3 The Best Book For The Mental Aspects
- 4 Please Her By Learning How to Talk Dirty
- 5 Multiples for Women
- 6 The Best Book for Improving your Foreplay Game
- 7 If you Want to Get into Tantra
- 8 Multiples for Men
- 9 The Best Book For the Enlightened Lover
- 10 The Best Description of Female Anatomy
- 11 An Oral Sex Classic and the Most Popular Book on How to Please a Woman
- 12 The Ultimate Guide to Pleasing a Woman Sexually
Why I decided to write The Master Key
Before I created this website, I made it my mission to become an amazing lover. As I was studying books on how to please women sexually, I felt like all of the books were missing things or written from a flawed perspective. That’s why I decided to write The Ultimate Guide.
The Master Key contains everything you would ever need to become an amazing lover, all the best techniques and psychological concepts.
If you are looking for the best information on how to please a woman in bed. This is the ultimate guide. Trust me, I’ve done the research, both theoretical and in the field.
Here is a Quick Comparison Table of the Best Books
| Book Title | Key Points |
| Sex God Method by Daniel Rose | – Focuses on mental aspects of sexual pleasure. – Utilizes the devi method (dominance, emotions, variety, and immersion). – Emphasizes the importance of more than just techniques for excellence in bed. |
| How To Talk Dirty by Natalie Robinson | – A guide to improving dirty talking skills. – Contains numerous examples but also typos and writing issues. |
| Give Her Multiple Big-O by Natalie Robinson | – Focuses on women’s orgasms with 87 tips and tricks. – Comprehensive but occasionally feels oddly written. |
| How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure by Lou Paget | – Offers explicit techniques for pleasing women. – Authored by a woman, providing a unique perspective. – Written in an easily digestible manner. |
| Urban Tantra, Second Edition by Barbara Carrellas | – Explores the spiritual side of sex and includes various techniques. – Comprehensive yet easy-to-read, covering topics from meditation to BDSM. – A modern take on tantra; recommended for those interested in a spiritual approach. |
| The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia & Douglas Abrams | – Rooted in Tao philosophy, focuses on achieving multiple orgasms for men. – Offers philosophical and “new agey” insights. |
| The Enlightened Sex Manual by David Deida | – Rated 4.5 stars on Amazon. – Blends spirituality with sexual skills, expressed in mystical energy talk. – May appeal more to those open to spiritual concepts. |
| Women’s Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston | – Provides holistic information on female anatomy in a “new age” style. – Includes illustrations and diagrams. |
| The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner | – Focuses on oral sex techniques. – Highly rated on Amazon (4.6 stars with 6000+ reviews). – Recommends techniques that only seem to have been tested on one woman. |
| The Master Key by Joe Nathan | – The ultimate guide to pleasing a woman sexually. – Written by myself after having done extensive research. – Includes all the best techniques and psychological concepts. |
The Best Book For The Mental Aspects
Sex God Method by Daniel Rose
One of the classics when it comes to books on how to please women sexually. While most books in the genre focus on different techniques, The Sex God method stands out by focusing on the mental aspects of sexual pleasure. Using the devi (dominance, emotions, variety, and immersion) method, the book is also good for learning how to take charge in the bedroom.
Although at times Daniel comes across as a bit too douchy, this is a great book for understanding that it’s more than just techniques to becoming great in bed.
Please Her By Learning How to Talk Dirty
How To Talk Dirty: 157 Dirty Talk Examples Guaranteed To Drive Your Lover Wild & Give You Ultimate Pleasure & Excitement Tonight by Natalie Robinson
A lot of women really like dirty talk and talking dirty is a great way of enhancing their emotions in the bedroom.
If you want to improve your dirty talking skills this book has a lot of examples to learn from. Unfortunately, it also has quite a few typos and is not the most well-written of books.
Multiples for Women
Give Her Multiple Big-O As Often As You Want: 87 Simple Tips & Tricks to Giving a Woman Full-Body, Mind-Blowing, Explosive Climax Again and Again by Natalie Robinson
This book is all about women’s orgasms. With 87 different tips and tricks, it’s also very comprehensive and contains some great information.
Although the book at times can feel a bit weirdly written, and some illustrations could have been good, this a great guide on how to please your partner and have a fulfilling and satisfying sexual relationship.
The Best Book for Improving your Foreplay Game
How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know by Lou Paget
In general, I’m always a bit skeptical about a book on how to please a woman sexually written by a woman. A woman surely knows what she likes, but just because she likes it doesn’t mean other women like it. I felt like this problem shined through in this book.
With the above said, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure has some good info. It’s also written in an easily digested way, which is not always the case with these types of books.
If you Want to Get into Tantra
Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century by Barbara Carrellas
If you want to get into a more spiritual side of sex or pick up some interesting spiritual sex techniques, Urban Tantra is a great read. It’s a very comprehensive, but still easy-to-read book that mixes interesting sexual techniques, breathing exercises, meditations, and even BDSM.
As the name hints this is more of a modern take on tantra. For actually learning Tantra, I recommend taking a course or joining a retreat.
Multiples for Men
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know by Matak Chia & Douglas Abrams
This is actually also a bit of a spiritual book. Following Tao philosophy, the multiorgasmic man is all about, you guessed it, learning how to become multiorgasmic.
Regardless of if you believe in the theory behind Taoism, there are some great techniques to learn and play around with in this book. However, be prepared they are packaged in a very philosophical “new agey” type o way.
The Best Book For the Enlightened Lover
The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover by David Deida
With a 4.5 star rating on Amazon, the Enlightened Sex Manual is a great book, but it’s also not for everyone.
If “spirituality” expressed in mystical energy talk is your thing then this book is a great read. I found it had some interesting theories and takeaways, but it was also a bit far out.
The Best Description of Female Anatomy
Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure by Sheri Winston
Like several other books on how to please a woman sexually, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal has some good info, but it’s written in a very holistic “new age” type of way.
As can be seen on the cover the book is primarily targeting women, but it also has some sections specifically for men. The highlights of the book are the description of female anatomy together with illustrations and diagrams.
An Oral Sex Classic and the Most Popular Book on How to Please a Woman
The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner
With a 4.6 rating out of 6000 plus reviews on Amazon, this book is probably the number one book on pleasing women sexually. The main focus of this book is oral sex, and it has some great techniques on the subject.
One thing that I felt lacking was that it seemed like Ian only had tried the techniques on his wife. Since all women are different, I felt that the book was missing a crucial part of the research.
Some of the techniques he presented are great to have in your repertoire, but they will not work for every woman in the magic way that he presented.
The Ultimate Guide to Pleasing a Woman Sexually
The Master Key by Joe Nathan
A long time ago before creating this website, I decided to become amazing in bed. I studied everything I could find on the subject, including all of the above books.
The more I studied I felt like all the books were flawed. While some were lacking crucial information, others were too spiritual or just focused on one part of sex.
That’s why I decided to write The Ultimate Guide to Become an Amazing Lover – The Master Key.
, Joe Nathan
