Okay, so foreplay techniques may not exactly be the main reason why you came to this site. And despite the urging headline, you’re probably thinking of moving on to something juicier. But I strongly recommend you to rethink this and continue reading.
After all, you came here because you desire to please women. Not because you want to please yourself.
Although no foreplay can be exciting at times, foreplay is usually crucial to great sex and even more crucial to great sex life. It will help your partner to relax and be in the moment. And it will also dramatically increase her likelihood of reaching orgasm. On top of this, a majority of the following ten foreplay techniques are techniques you can use while having sex with your woman. She will love it.
With that said, let’s get down to the nitty-gritty. Your woman will highly appreciate the following foreplay techniques:
Table of Contents
- 1 All Day Foreplay
- 2 The Non-Sexual Parts – A counterintuitive Foreplay Technique
- 3 The Tongue Flick
- 4 Eye Massage (with your tongue!)
- 5 Neck Massage (with your lips and tongue)
- 6 Massage with your Hands – The underestimated Technique
- 7 Incorporate Restraints
- 8 Only Use Your Hands or Mouth
- 9 Bite Her Lip
- 10 Ear Massage (with your tongue)
- 11 More Foreplay Techniques
All Day Foreplay
When most men think about foreplay, they usually think of the physical contact before the actual penetration. Such as kisses and hugs etc. This is, to some extent, foreplay, but to just confine foreplay by the walls of the bedroom, is too many women equal to not having any foreplay at all. Thus instead of doing this, you use all-day foreplay.
Everything that you do as a man in a sexual relationship that lets your partner know she is your sensual, sexy, and sexual lover creates all-day foreplay. This, for example, includes things such as holding up a door, dancing slowly and sensually with your partner in the living room, and making the dinner into a romantic dinner.
Or why not invite her to dinner and tell her that you want to return home and have passionate sex after dinner?
Only your imagination limits what all-day foreplay can be.
Whether you want a great sex life in a long-term relationship or just want to give your woman an amazing night, you need to use all-day foreplay.
The Non-Sexual Parts – A counterintuitive Foreplay Technique
Sometimes take the whole foreplay and focus on all the “non-sexual” parts of your woman’s body. Deliberately avoid the traditionally sexual parts, and all the parts you from previous experience know to create powerful reactions. This is so unusual and contradictory that it will make your woman feel pleasure in a way she has never previously felt.
The Tongue Flick
When you’re kissing your woman’s breast, (yeah you definitely should pay some good attention to the breast), you place your tongue on top of a nipple. The nipple should rest between the tongue and the teeth in your lower jaw. Then push the tongue downward until it snaps over the nipple.
Repeat the motion using various pressure and speed according to your woman’s reactions. As you will notice by her reactions, this creates potent emotional impulses.
Eye Massage (with your tongue!)
To massage your woman’s eyes with your tongue, you use the tip of your tongue. Slowly and sensually move it around her eyelids, along the almond-shaped edge of her eye. This technique is a bit unusual. But it often produces very positive reactions.
Neck Massage (with your lips and tongue)
To massage her neck with your lips, you open up your mouth and place the inside of your lips on your partner’s neck. Then slowly close your mouth and let the inside of the lips slide along her neck until the mouth closes. This will create a nice neck massage.
To massage her neck with your tongue, you slowly follow the neck with the tip of your tongue. Or slowly lick it with your whole tongue. When you use the whole tongue, it is important that you first get as big contact surface as possible between the upper side of your tongue and her neck. Then slowly let the tongue slide along the neck until it’s inside your mouth again. This technique creates a really nice and sensual feeling.
Massage with your Hands – The underestimated Technique
Massage is underrated and often overlooked when it comes to foreplay. For your woman to appreciate it, you need to be far from a licensed practitioner.
Either you can make the massage a special part of the foreplay where you just focus on giving your woman a massage. Or you can let your hands go to work as you’re kissing her.
If you give some special attention to your woman’s back, neck, feet, hands, and arms, she will be more than happy. Some basic massage techniques you can use are pressing circular movements with the thumbs, or the hard lower part of the palms. As well as kneading circular movements with the hands. If you’re unsure how to do it, you can check some youtube videos.
Incorporate Restraints
If you want to spice up the foreplay, restraints are great. A blindfold on your woman will heighten her other senses. Thus it will make her appreciate all the other techniques you’re using even more. And if you really want to spice it up, you can blindfold yourself as well; this way, you turn the foreplay into a fun and sensual game.
If you want to get even kinkier, you can use a rope or handcuffs to restrain your woman. If you don’t have anything like this available and are not ready to hit the sex store just yet, ties also work fine.
To learn even more about restraints and BDSM type of sex, check out these posts on: taking charge in bed, submissive girlfriend, aggressive tips to do in bed and ball gags.
Only Use Your Hands or Mouth
If you want to do something completely different for a change, you can limit yourself to just using either only your hands or only your mouth during the entire foreplay. This way, you force yourself to think outside the box. And your woman will feel outside-of-the-box pleasure.
Bite Her Lip
A simple but great way to spice up your kissing is lip-biting. Just take a quick break from the kiss and lightly bite into your woman’s lower lip. While her lip is lying there caught in between your teeth, you can take a moment and just look into her eyes.
As you’ll notice, this is a passionate move that your woman will enjoy. Don’t be surprised if she bites back.
Ear Massage (with your tongue)
With the tip of your tongue, you slowly follow your woman’s ear from its earlobe all the way toward the ear canal. However, breathing out while performing this foreplay technique will create discomfort. So make sure to either hold your breath or breathe in slowly as you perform it. Done correctly, this will feel very nice to your woman.
More Foreplay Techniques
If you want to level up your foreplay and sex game to a whole different level and learn tons of new foreplay techniques and fresh ideas, I have a whole section dedicated to foreplay in The Master Key. And if you’re interested in moving past the foreplay phase and becoming the ultimate lover, you’ll also find everything else you need in The Master Key.
There’s no reason you shouldn’t become as good as you can be in bed.
