“Not again”. The words she uttered cut through my male pride with the same ease as a newly sharpened Japanese knife cuts through a freshly caught tuna. But it was the disappointed frustration in her voice, mixed with the look of pity, that made my male pride feel the knife reach all the way to the bone, and then make a perfect twist.
About ten years ago, I had the exact same problem as a lot of other men. I wasn’t sure if my girlfriend came when we had sex. At times I could tell that she was enjoying it, but at other times she didn’t seem to enjoy it that much.
Sometimes I also just came a little bit too early. Well, to be honest, sometimes a lot too early. And even when I didn’t come too early, I wasn’t quite sure if my girlfriend really enjoyed it as much as I wanted her to.
Being unsure made me try harder, especially to not come too soon. Which just made me come even sooner. My girlfriends reasonably happy “after-sex face”, turned more and more into a look of pity and annoyance. Instead of the afterglow, the “not again” phrase entered. She ended the relationship.
However, since I had started getting into self-development books, I realized that this area, just like any other area in my life, should be possible to improve. I did some research and picked up a few techniques on how to last longer.
Eventually, I also got to try out the techniques in real life. The first few I tried really sucked. But instead of getting discouraged, I tried some more with better results. Finally, I hit the jackpot. All of a sudden, I could get past the difficult moment, and keep on going for a long time. It felt so fucking good.
Around this time, I also started dating a new girl more seriously. Being able to fuck her for as long as I wanted, felt great. However, despite me fucking her for a long time, I noticed that she didn’t seem to feel as great as I did.
She definitely didn’t come loudly. And she also started to reply less frequently and with less excitement to my messages. The time between the replies kept on dragging out longer and longer until it was flat line. Once again, I had failed.
Regardless of being bummed out, I could see where things had gone wrong. Even though I lasted a long time, the sex was far from great. Instead of giving up, I decided that this would be the last time that this happened, ever.
I stopped focusing on just lasting longer in bed, and instead dedicated myself to becoming better in every aspect of sex.
As I began to study the topic with a newfound intensity, a whole new and very hot reality opened up to me. I understood just how uneducated I had been, and how much I had sucked. It became my mission to become the greatest I could ever be in bed.
During the following years, I went through all the different resources that could be found on the topic. Books, E-books, online courses, YouTube clips, blogs. Any resource on how to become better in bed, you name it, and I’ve studied it. I even dove into the world of Tantra.
My New Very Hot Reality
A bit into the journey, I started seeing a new girl, and what I made her experience, both blew her and my mind. Now all of a sudden, I had the girl I was dating screaming with pleasure and curling her body towards the bed headrest in uncontrollable movements of pure bliss.
As I enjoyed every part of my transformation, I wished the previous girls I’d been with would have had the same experience. And I felt bad for the misery I’d put them through.
However, since I was traveling a lot at the time, I didn’t want to be confined by a relationship. And my newfound sexual confidence also translated into a confidence that attracted girls.
During the following years, I tried out all the knowledge I had gathered from the years of studying. Instead of worrying about or deep down even knowing that I couldn’t satisfy girls, I was getting visual and loud proof of their satisfaction.
After the sex, girls were telling me things like “you fuck amazing”, and asking me how I could be so fucking good, and if guys from my country studied sex.
Everyone Needed to Know About These Things
Since I was so happy with the transformation I’d been going through at this time, I felt the urge to share the knowledge. After an especially great week with great sex, I remember being on a hike with a friend. I started telling him of my journey and how the other night, the girl I was seeing had called me “a fucking magician”. I also gave him a few pointers.
The next week he called me up. In his own words, he told me how he’d just had “a fucking crazy night”. He told me about how fucking hard he’d made this girl come. How he wanted more tips, and how I should write a book.
So the decision was made. During the following years, I kept on trying out stuff, at the same time as I was working on The Master Key. I wrote down all the techniques and concepts that really worked, and I ditched all the fluff and things that didn’t work.
As I was trying out things, I also realized that a lot of the material I had studied was flawed in one way or another. Often it was focused on some special part of sex or written from a certain perspective. It failed to give the whole picture.
I wanted the guide that I was working on to be the ultimate guide, to include all the best techniques and psychological concepts. But also to give the bigger picture. Creating extremely intense emotions can’t be done just by using tips and tricks alone.
And now that the guide is finished, it includes everything I wanted it to include. Everything you would ever need to become the best you can be in bed.
Regardless of what your skill level is at the moment, all the different sections will take your sex game to a whole other level. So if you haven’t checked it out already, you definitely should.
