During the process of working on my ultimate guide to become amazing in bed, I interviewed a lot of women. In these interviews, the women answered several questions regarding what they liked in bed. They also shared their best sex tips and what they thought were the most important things for a man to be a great lover.
For this blog post, I decided to share some of the key takeaways. I will go through five of the most important sex tips for men that the women shared with me. You will also get plenty of tips on exactly how you can take action.
Let’s dive in.
In no particular order, here are the sex tips:
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Look into Her Eyes During Sex
One of the sex tips that I received in the interviews was regarding the importance of keeping eye contact during sex. Women love emotional sex, and by looking into your woman’s eyes, you can make the sex so much more emotional.
On the other hand, if you’re not keeping eye contact, the sex can feel very impersonal. Even to the point that it becomes a turn-off.
Tips on How to Use Eye Contact During Sex
Using eye contact can be done in two different ways. Either you watch your partner deep into her eyes for short but emotional moments. Or you try to look her in the eyes during the entire act. Regardless of which way you do it, you should make sure not to just look at the eyes. Look deep inside them.
If your woman is closing her eyes or you notice that she’s glancing in a different direction, you can take charge. Tell her that you want her to look into your eyes. Then stop or slow down until she looks you in the eyes again.
Take Charge
In my interviews, a lot of women also stressed the importance of a man that takes charge and lead during the sexual interaction.
Since most women are sexually submissive, it really turns them on when the man acts dominant and leads. And if you don’t take charge, well, then the sex will be far from as good as it could have been. Unfortunately, failing in the dominance is something that a lot of guys are guilty of according to my interviews.
Tips on How you can Take Charge
Contrary to what many believe, dominating a woman during sex does not mean you need to do anything weird. It can simply be about leading her in a manly way. Something you do by touching her with determination and self-confidence.
If you want to get a blowjob, move your woman’s head to your dick or the dick to her mouth. If you want to fuck doggy, put her on all four. Let her feel that she is together with a man that’s stronger than her.
This certainly doesn’t mean you’re supposed to give her bruises, just that you should use your natural strength as a man. Women love this.
Use your body to move and control her body. Lift her up from the ground. Throw her on the bed or push her up against the wall. Move her towards you and lift up her chin with your finger when you’re about to kiss her. Spin her around with sexual self-confidence and combine this with the tip above by looking deep into her eyes.
You don’t need to exaggerate, but just make sure that she feels your natural strength.
Pay Attention
Among all sex tips for men, this is probably the most important, as it was highly stressed by a majority of all women during my interviews.
Since all women are different and like different things, it is very important to pay attention to how your partner reacts to what you are doing.
Tips on How to Pay Better Attention During Sex
Learn how she likes it as you’re being attentive and humbly calibrate your actions based of her reactions. Focus on such things as the combination of where you touch her, how hard and with what rhythm, along with how she reacts.
However, as written in the previous tips, at the same time as you do this, you as a man, are the one who should lead the interaction. With creativity, you introduce and surprise your woman with new things and feelings she may not be used to.
Managing this combination of leading the interaction and paying attention is one of the most important aspects of being a great lover.
Don’t Be Selfish
Another tip that the women brought up was the importance of not being selfish. Since you are browsing this website, this should already be a priority for you. All though it may sound easy, some guys don’t even realize that they are selfish.
Tips on How to Put Your Woman First
It’s not uncommon for guys to finish before their girls, and this contributes to what is called the orgasm gap. By checking out my post on how to last longer in bed, you can minimize the risk of finishing early.
However, even if you know how to last long, it still happens that you finish before your girl. The important thing if this happens, is that you make sure that you’re actually just finishing before your girl. Not that you are the only person finishing. So even if your dick is checked out for the moment, you can and should still use your fingers and mouth and take time for proper foreplay.
Get to Know the Clitoris
Last but definitely not least, let’s talk about the clit.
The clitoris is often referred to as the only organ in the human body with the sole purpose of giving pleasure. It is also the most sensitive organ in the human body. On top of this, about 40 percent of all women need clitoral stimulation to cum during sex.
When you consider this information, it’s probably not so strange to understand that a lot of women in my interviews brought up the importance of understanding and paying attention to the clitoris. So if you’re a man who wants to become better in bed, make sure to do your homework. According to the interviews, some guys don’t even know where the clitoris is located.
Tips on How to Stimulate the Clitoris and How You Can Become an Amazing Lover
You can stimulate the clit by using different sex positions and your hand. But by far, the best way to stimulate the clit is with your mouth.
In my ultimate guide on how to become an amazing lover, you’ll learn all the best pussy eating techniques. You’ll also learn how to fuck your woman like she’s never been fucked before, and how you can make her cum in ways that she never came before.
If you want to become truly great in bed, I highly recommend it.
Conclusion – 5 Sex Tips for Men
If you really follow the sex tips from this post, you should be well on your way to becoming a great lover. On this website, there are loads of other blog posts and information with sex tips for men.
By using all the stuff that’s available on The Pleasure Keys, you’ll become the best lover she’s ever had.
