Most women really love getting their breasts stimulated both during sex and foreplay. Some women can even receive an orgasm from nipple stimulation; a Nipple Orgasm. Unfortunately, nipple stimulation is something that guys tend to rush through or forget.
During the research for my ultimate guide to become an amazing lover, one woman explained it like this:
Men should know that for most women nipples are a major erogenous zone and pay them more attention. Now I am not saying they need excessive attention but definitely more than many men realize they do.”
After reading this post, you will never be one of those men again. Here you’ll learn all the best breast and nipple stimulation techniques, and also a way to bring your woman to orgasm from nipple stimulation.
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Nipple Orgasm Facts
According to a recent study, nipple stimulation activates the brain in a similar way as genital stimulation. On top of this, nipple stimulation produces oxytocin – the love hormone. The above is supported in the following study, where 81.5% of all women reported that stimulation of their nipples/breasts caused or enhanced their sexual arousal.
While older resources claim that only a few women can reach orgasm from breast stimulation, breast cancer surgeon Kristi Funk, recently claimed that one-third of all women can reach orgasm solely by nipple stimulation.
Thus some women definitely have the ability to experience a nipple orgasm with the help of nipple stimulation. And even if they have never experienced it before, there’s a first for everything. You can become the first man ever to lead her to a nipple orgasm.
Not All Women’s Breast Are Equally Sensitive
Before diving into techniques, let me also give you some background info. In general, the breasts are the body’s second most erogenous zone after the vagina. However, the breasts of all women are different, and how erogenous they are, also differs.
While some women can reach orgasm from nipple stimulation, others may not feel any pleasure from nipple stimulation at all. I’ve personally experienced both parts of the spectra.
To find out which group your woman belongs to, you just have to try out the techniques below.
Besides the variation of nipple sensitivity between women, the sensitivity of one woman’s breasts may also differ from time to time. The closer to menstruation a woman is, the higher the chances are that her breasts are extra sensitive. Thus the chances are higher that you’ll be able to use nipple stimulation to give her a nipple orgasm.
Take Your Time and Build Anticipation
Before focusing on the breasts and nipples, you should build up anticipation. For some tips on building up anticipation, you can read my posts: sexual teasing, foreplay techniques, and the definite foreplay guide for men. Anticipation is a great way to make your woman love it even more when you start touching or sucking on her nipples.
Once your partner is ready, you caress her from her neck down to her navel, between and on the outside of the breasts without touching them. Massage and kiss everywhere around the breasts. Breathe warm air on the nipples, without touching them.
Move your fingers or tongue in circular motions closer and closer to her nipples. Take your time. Kiss her on the side of the breasts and around them. But keep on building up anticipation until you finally take her nipples in your mouth. Feel them there. Start by just taking in the feeling of having them in your mouth.
Stimulating the Nipples
Once you have taken the nipples in your mouth, you can move on to sucking, licking, and kissing them. Don’t worry about sucking hard. Depending on your woman’s reactions, you can even use your teeth. But make sure to start with a light touch and then calibrate your movements and pressure according to your woman’s reaction.
A special technique that you should try is the nipple snap; place your tongue on top of a nipple. The nipple should rest between the tongue and the teeth in your lower jaw. Then push downwards with the tongue until it snaps over the nipple.
As you will experience, this technique may create a very powerful emotional impulse within your woman. Repeat it using various pressure and speed according to your woman’s reactions.
Don’t Discriminate
Be sure to give love to both nipples. Bring them together so that they nudge each other. Kiss them both at the same time if possible. Also, try kissing your partner at the same time. Alternatively, let her kiss her own nipples while you’re kissing her.
If she has small breasts, this may not work. But just because she has big breasts, it’s also not sure that it works. As with anything else, we are all different.
Also try out rolling her nipples between your fingers, or massaging the breasts almost as if you were to milk them. Either each one on its own, or both at the same time. Start massaging with your fingers around the whole breast, and then slowly move inwards until you reach the end of the nipple.
All of these tips for breast stimulation, work just as well during foreplay as when you are inside your woman.
A Path to Giving Her a Nipple Orgasm
One way of giving your woman a nipple orgasm, is to stimulate her nipple at the same time as you stimulate her in a way that you know she will reach orgasm. For example, clit stimulation (thus, you already have to know how to lead the woman to orgasm from before).
Take her as close to the edge as possible. Once she is really close to coming, you stop with the normal stimulation and bring her over the edge with nipple stimulation. As you are doing this, you can also talk dirty to her and tell her to imagine that you are licking her clit instead of the nipple.
E.g.
- You’re moaning so hard, it’s like I’m licking your clit.
- I must be licking your clit
- Your clit feels so good in between my lips.
- Just enjoy how I lick your clit
- It feels so good to lick your clit
This type of dirty talk may help her to get over the edge.
As all women are different, this method may, of course, not work on all women. However, nipple stimulation together with clitoral and g-spot stimulation, gives the woman a feeling of connection between the different zones. So regardless, she will have an amazing experience.
A Way to Make her Nipples More Sensitive
If you are together with a partner whose breasts aren’t very sensitive. Or if you want your partner’s breasts to become even more sensitive, you can put extra focus on breast massage. It is possible that the increased blood flow that breast massage creates will make the breasts more sensitive. Thus it will be more likely that you can give her a nipple stimulation orgasm.
Regardless, your woman will certainly appreciate the massage.
Breast Massage
When you give a breast massage, you should make sure you use plenty of oil; regular grapeseed oil works fine. Start lightly and then massage deeper. Your partner may find it a bit uncomfortable, but it should not hurt.
When you massage your partner’s breast, you can also use the following specific massage technique, It will create a powerful sensation.
With your partner lying down on her back, position yourself so that you are standing above her head. Then focus on one breast at a time. Grasp the breast with your corresponding hand, thumb diagonally from the side, and the remaining fingers below.
Tell your partner to breathe deeply. With your nails angled upwards, you then let your fingertips slowly sink into and under the side of the breast as your partner inhales. Instruct her to keep her breath for a short while. Then you release the grip when she exhales.
Not only can this type of massage make her breasts more sensitive. But because the massage contributes to improved blood circulation, there is a great chance that her breasts will be perceived as bigger afterward.
Time to Stimulate her to a Nipple Orgasm
After reading all of the above, you may feel an instant urge just to go and bury yourself in a pair of awesome tits and try out all of the techniques as fast as you can. However, before doing this, let me repeat what the woman I referred to in the beginning stated.
I am not saying they need excessive attention”.
So sure, at times, you can just spend the whole foreplay really focusing on your woman’s tits and try out all of the above and everything else you can come up with. Your woman will surely love it.
However, unless you want to come across as a tit fetishist, it should be far in between these times. Instead, I recommend that you mix it up with all the other skills that will make you an amazing lover.
