Last week I wrote a post explaining what guys can do to get better in bed. Even though it was a long post, it was focused on the basic stuff that guys can do.
This week I wanted to continue beyond doing and beyond just getting better. I wanted to talk about greatness in bed and, specifically, what it is that makes a man a great lover. Let me first give you the short answer.
For a man to be a great lover, he knows all the best techniques. But being great in bed is also about so much more than what you do. A great lover is uninhibited, emotional, imaginative, loving, wild, passionate, and romantic.
In this blog post, I will dive deeper into the above and talk about what you can do to become a great lover.
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So Much More Than What You Do
When we talk about being a great lover, we can imagine such personalities as Don Juan and Casanova. If you haven’t seen the movie Don Juan DeMarco, I highly recommend it. Besides being a really good movie, it will give you a better understanding of what makes a man a great lover.
Being truly great at sex is not just about knowing how to do something. It’s about being and embodying greatness.
Amazing sex is so much more than just physical techniques. It’s a holistic experience that takes your woman away from her everyday life and reality. Different angles and physical techniques alone will just not do this to the same extent as a great lover can. It’s not about what you do, as much as who you are.
A Great Lover is Multidimensional
To describe what makes a man a great lover, we have to look at characteristics, the characteristics of great sex, and of a great lover. In the inherent of being great at something, you also can’t be one-dimensional. You have to cover the whole spectra.
In this blog post I will of course, not be able to cover the complete picture 100 %. However, I’ve decided to structure the post around various keywords. Keywords that are descriptive of the kind of sex associated with an amazing lover. If you study all the information on the subject, practice what you learn as well as embody the following characteristics, you will be a great lover:
The Characteristics That Will Make You a Great Lover
Uninhibited
The meaning of being uninhibited is to “express one’s feelings or thoughts unselfconsciously and without restraint”. Thus being uninhibited about sex is about expressing your sexuality and love for sex with confidence and without restraints.
Having sex is something natural, and women love it when you are uninhibited about your passion for sex. Love sex and show it, regardless of when or where you are.
Varied and Imaginative
So you learned these techniques, and you are great at them. You make your woman cum every time and she will love it. To a certain extent.
If you keep on doing the same thing, she will love it less and less. It doesn’t matter how good something is from the beginning, if you continue to do the same thing every time, it will become boring and routine. That’s why variation is so important.
An amazing lover knows the importance of being varied. To master sex is about being skilled and to master blending all the skills. Always doing the same thing in the same order is the opposite of great sex. Whereas by being imaginative, creative and playful, you will make the sex great.
Emotional
Sex can be good without being emotional, but to be great, it also has to be emotional. If there are emotions behind everything you do, it will feel so much more powerful. To be great in bed, you have to be able to mix great techniques with the ability to create powerful emotions.
Since sex with emotions involved becomes so much stronger than sex without emotions, you must dare to be emotional and expressive. Because all feelings, regardless of type, lead to reinforced experiences.
Loving
Women love to be fucked, but they also love to make love. If you’re just great at fucking, you will be a great fuck. But regardless of how cheesy it sounds, you also need to know how to make love and be a loving individual to be a great lover.
Being physically loving, affectionate, and respectful are all part of being an amazing lover. And by being more intimate, loving, and truly appreciating your woman and her entire body, you will definitely make your woman love the sex much more.
Wild and Passionate
Imagine great sex. Yes, if you imagined it the way most people imagine it, it was definitely wild and passionate. A great lover is a passionate individual, and amazing sex is a passionate experience.
Allow yourself to have self-confidence and to be comfortable with being a passionate sexual masculine creature. Your woman will love it. Let yourself go and let sex be something amazing that influences you in a powerful way, without guilt or shyness.
Romantic
A lot of women love romance novels, and most woman also love romance. Even though you may consider being romantic as something you are outside the bedroom, it’s still of a great importance to what happens inside the bedroom.
Confining foreplay by the walls of the bedroom, is too many women equal to not having any foreplay at all. A great foreplay way before you reach the bedroom, will enhance the sex in itself and is often a part of great sex.
Intimate and Intense
In a survey asking women about what gives them the most pleasure in regards to sex, the answers emotional intimacy and sharing feelings with a loved one peaked.
Another study regarding why women experience difficulties reaching orgasm, was topped by the lack of emotional intimacy. Thus Intimacy is extremely important for sex. The more intimate the sex the more intense and powerful. Great sex is intense. An intense journey for both of you.
Additional Characteristics of What Makes a Man a Great Lover
Besides the characteristics above, you can also add; expressive, different, sinful, animalistic, crazy, and unique, when you are describing what makes great sex and what makes a man a great lover.
Women dream of uninhibited passionate sex with an amazing lover who gives them wild, but also loving sex in all imaginable and unthinkable places and ways. They want to feel loved and beautiful, and have the opportunity to act out fantasies without being judged or disrespected.
They also love to be appreciated by someone who really takes time to adore their complete body during certain occasions. While at other times, the lover is so passionate that it doesn’t even matter where they are.
In order to truly become the best lover you can be, you must be able to unite with your partner on a spiritual level, create the romance that her heart is looking for. Activate all the sensuality that her body desires, and fuck her in all the ways that her inner slut loves.
Become an Amazing Lover
If you want to know exactly what to do and how to act to become all of the above, to become amazing in bed, I recommend my ultimate guide on how to become an amazing lover: The Master Key.
Learn how to fuck your woman like she never has been fucked before.
