How to Get Better in Bed for Guys

I recently did some research regarding what type of things guys google to improve their skills in bed. How to get better in bed for guys was one of the top search terms, so of course, I had to write a blog post answering the question. Let me first give you the quick answer.

By studying resources on how to improve in bed and then practicing what you learn, you will become better in bed. You will also improve by: Paying attention to what your woman like. Learning and using fingering, foreplay, and how to use your mouth. Leading her with confidence and being passionate.

Now if you want to learn exactly how you can become better in bed, continue reading this blog post. Let’s dive in.

Sex Is a Skill

First off, you need to know that sex is a skill just like any other skill. And, like any other skill, you can get better at it. Now how do you get better at anything then? Well the obvious answer is of course by practicing.

However, you also need to know what you are doing and what to practice. Just practicing without knowing what to practice and relying on trial and error, may make you slightly more skilled in the long run. But if you want to become really good at something, you definitely also need to know how to practice and what to practice. 

Get Better in Bed by Studying the Right Resources

When it comes to sex, unfortunately most people don’t really know much about what they are doing. As it’s such a taboo subject to talk about, the little we guys know is actually often from porn, which as entertaining as it can be, is just entertainment. Watching a bunch of porn will unfortunately not help you to get better in bed.

Instead, you need to properly learn about sex and study the subject. To do this, you need materials and resources. Since this is the number one website for guys who want to get better in bed, you have definitely arrived at the right place.

If You Want to Master Sex

On The Pleasure Keys I have a bunch of free material and in this blog post, I will explain how guys can get better in bed. So reading this will definitely help you get better in bed.

However, if you really want to become a truly great lover and not just get better. I’m talking about becoming the best person she’s ever had sex with. By far. Then I highly recommend you to also check out The Master Key. In the Master Key, I have compiled years of research into one ultimate guide. It is the fastest and easiest way to become really fucking good in bed.

With that said, let me get into how guys can become better in bed.

Study Female Anatomy First

As I first wrote, the first step is to study. And the first and most basic thing you need to study is female anatomy. Although not all women like the same things or even get turned on by the same thing, there are definitely more commonalities than the opposite. Female anatomy belongs to the commonalities.

Learn about the woman’s most erogenous zones, like the g-spot and the a-spot. And learn exactly how to stimulate them. But also understand that most women only know how to come from external stimulation of the clitoris. So also read up about the clitoris and how to stimulate it in the best way. 

If you have any special issues like not being able to last long enough, you should of course also read about how you can resolve the problem. Check out my ultimate guide on lasting longer, if this is an issue you’re struggling with.

Practice what You Learned but Don’t Forget to Be Responsive

Once you have studied the basic female anatomy, it’s time to start practicing from a more competent position.

As you do this, you need to keep in mind that women prefer different things, in different ways. Even at different times. Thus one of the most important things for being good in bed is to be responsive and to pay attention to exactly how the woman you are together with like it. Calibrate your touch after her reactions.

Lead with Confidence

At the same time as you are being responsive towards your woman, you also need to act with self-confidence and physically lead her. All women love being with a man that’s self-confident but also responsive. And almost all women are submissive and also love being led by a man that takes charge and acts dominant in the bedroom.

If you weren’t self-confident before, then becoming competent by studying and actually knowing what to do, will definitely increase your sexual self-confidence. And once you see the amazing pleasure you are capable of giving, your sexual self-confidence will become even greater.

If you despite this are having difficulties leading the woman, a salsa course is a great way to become more comfortable with leading.

The Importance of Passion for Being Great at Sex

As you lead your woman while at the same time being responsive, however it’s also highly important that you are passionate. If you have ever been with a woman that’s passionate in bed, you know how hot it is. It will be just as hot for her to be with a passionate man.

You don’t exactly need to scream loudly all the time, but don’t be afraid of making noises and telling her how hot she is. Let her hear that you are enjoying it.

Another way of expressing your passion is to take action and do what you want exactly when you want it. This will make you even more of a man that leads.

Use All the Tools

Now when it comes to the sex itself, I also want to point out that sex can and should be so much more than just penetration. Fingering, eating pussy, foreplay, and afterglow are all important parts of sex. By paying proper attention to these parts, you will become better in bed. They can even be used at any time during the act. Sex becomes so much more enjoyable as an exciting nonlinear event.

For the sake of variation, you shouldn’t include all of these elements every time you have sex. But they should play a big part in your repertoire and will definitely make the sex more fun and varied. 

Enjoy!

Last but not least, I want to stress the importance of enjoyment. Great sex should not be goal oriented. Even if leading your woman to orgasm may be your goal, it should never be an outspoken goal. To make your partner’s experience even more pleasurable, you should let go of the goal orientation and enjoy the experience together with her.

Although you can lead and make it easier for a woman to experience new heights of orgasmic potential, you can never actually give anyone an orgasm. So don’t create any performance expectations.

Just have fun and enjoy the experience.

Take it a Step Further and Become Amazing in Bed

There you go. After reading this blog post you should have a pretty good idea of how you as a man can become better in bed. If you want to take it to the next level, you have my ultimate guide on how to become an amazing lover.

/ Joe Nathan